Caregivers Deserve Care Too

Samantha Clarke
2 days ago
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Understanding caregiver burnout and how therapy can help

Written by Samantha Clarke

Caregiving can quietly reshape your life.

For many caregivers, what begins as an act of love gradually expands into something all-consuming. Your time, energy, identity, and emotional world may begin to revolve around the needs of someone else. And while caregiving is often meaningful, it can also be deeply exhausting in ways few people truly understand.

Caregivers commonly experience burnout, chronic stress, emotional exhaustion, anxiety, disrupted sleep, irritability, guilt, or resentment. Many describe feeling overwhelmed, invisible, or torn between their own needs and the needs of those they care for. Over time, it can feel as though you have disappeared beneath the caregiving role.

This doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong. It means you’re human.

The Emotional Cost of Caregiving

Caregiving often requires sustained emotional presence, vigilance, and self-sacrifice. When this continues without adequate support or rest, the nervous system remains in a prolonged state of stress. Over time, this can show up as:

Feeling constantly “on edge” or overwhelmed
Difficulty sleeping or fully resting
Increased irritability or emotional reactivity
Guilt when taking time for yourself
A loss of identity beyond caregiving

These responses are not personal failures — they are signs that your system needs care, too.

How Therapy Can Support Caregivers

Therapy offers caregivers a space that is just for you. A place where your needs matter, your feelings are valid, and you don’t have to hold everything together.

In therapy, caregivers often work on:

Reducing burnout, chronic stress, anxiety, and emotional exhaustion
Regulating stress and overwhelm in the body and nervous system
Addressing guilt, anger, resentment, or self-blame with compassion
Improving sleep and restoring energy
Communicating needs more clearly and confidently
Setting and maintaining boundaries without harming relationships
Reconnecting with identity, meaning, and autonomy beyond caregiving

Therapy doesn’t ask you to stop caring. It helps you care with less emotional cost.

“But I Don’t Have Time for Therapy”

Many caregivers worry they don’t have the time, energy, or flexibility for therapy. Therapy can be structured virtually and flexibly to meet you where you are — because support should reduce your burden, not add to it.

What If Caregiving Is Long-Term?

Even when caregiving continues long-term, therapy can help. Rather than focusing on escape, therapy supports emotional endurance, steadiness, resilience, and long-term wellbeing — so caregiving does not come at the expense of your health or identity.